Single woman is not a beast of affection
Once upon a time, we had this understanding of the single women around us: loneliness, lofty, perfect love and marriage, more or less weird.
Today, singles are no longer synonymous with loneliness, and there is another fashion.
I believe that people who have read “BJ’s Single Diary” should have such a fresh understanding of today’s single women: about 27-30 years old, economically independent, well-dressed, sensual, confused, smoking and drinking and staying up late . of course, We should not subjectively make such a mark on the current single women, but there are still some women who are single as a life experience. The reason why they choose to be single is not necessarily to seek perfect love and marriage, nor is it entirely for love.Waiting, their understanding of singleness is: the original freedom is to do whatever they want.
Therefore, compared with the single person in the traditional sense, they have jumped out of their original loneliness, so that their lives are no longer boring, but rather brilliant.
They know more about work and themselves, and having no boyfriend is no big deal.
They even feel that they may have regrets emotionally, but they never give in to their physical needs.
In this way of life, people cannot help asking: single is freedom?
Freedom is casual sex?
She is single, and her sexuality is just a physiological need. Li Ni, a 27-year-old corporate employee, actually said that I had no illusions about love and marriage, and it was not entirely correct. I had it before, but I failed.
Soon after he left me, he married a girl who had just met him. The frustration at that time made me almost desperate.
But most of these old stories end in loneliness. Such closed houses, closed hearts, make people feel that life is drying up.
Later I knew that my pain was less depressive and demanding of myself, so I gave up my previous thoughts.
In fact, why do women want marriage?
Not at all.
Because, that’s all about face. What about marriage?
Still thinking about derailment?
Once you have figured out these questions, that’s fine.
The most embarrassing thing that singles need to deal with is their own physical needs.
No one can ignore the needs of his body.
I am also a normal woman, why can’t I have sex?
My boss treats me very well. He knows that I won’t cry and cry to marry him. We often open rooms in the hotel. Every time, I attach great importance to it. At that time, it was an idea to satisfy my body.
He needs a passionate woman like me.
Of course, I’m not the kind of person to approach him, or I feel that I need a man in my life.
Everyone in the company knows my relationship with him. I have nothing. Anyway, he gave me some shares in the company. Moreover, I also proved that I am not the kind of woman who is not manly.
Whenever I am alone at home, I go online and chat with those lonely men. Some feel better, and occasionally meet and eat.
Feel better, you can go to bed.
However, I also met some people who were so naked. No one was serious anyway. Once they were invariant, there was nothing to stimulate.
There are also some men who have offered to live together, and I am also considering that I will only be eligible if I have tried it.
Sex is just a simple question for me. What I want is to satisfy my needs.
Sex is an experience in my life Jiang Yan, a 29-year-old photographer, a few years ago, I started this single life that is unimaginable in the eyes of ordinary people. In fact, I am very satisfied with my life. I do n’t like family.constraint.
My work is very busy and I don’t have much time to feel the so-called loneliness.
When I was 28 years old, my parents were worried about my business all day. They saw pressure on me and I saw pressure on them. So I bought a house and moved out.
When work is too tiring, I often go to the bar to chat and feel very happy.
Sometimes, the bar is actually a bad place, so that the innocent people become unbridled, indulgent, and extravagant. The true side of human nature always depends on the concentration of alcohol to refine and sublimate.
Often, there are some men who like to mess with flowers and make up for them. They are pleasing to the eye and talk, and they don’t care about the reason.
In fact, it is the most cheesy flirt, but everyone needs cheesy, as long as it is not insignificant.
Why are there so many men there?
It’s for the so-called affair.That kind of environment, that kind of mood, everyone is best to put away a normal book and play every scene, then it depends on who is the master.
Of course, I also have a few lovers, and some also live together.
I like “City of Desire”. I like Kerry in it. My friend said that my character is very similar to her. Love has happened to me many times. I don’t like a man to stay with me for a long time.
Wait until there is no interest in each other, tired, and then separated, there is a lot of room for both sides.
The most recent time, I met a tall rock musician in a bar. When we first saw each other, he said, I like a direct woman like you!
I smiled, thinking in my heart that the fish was hooked when it was about to close.
He’s awesome in bed. Sometimes we lie in bed all day and have crazy sex. I like men with good energy.
People say that I am a person who knows how to enjoy, but I am also a person who knows how to work hard.
Life is actually an experience process. Only when you are young can you spend your capital so freely and irresponsibly.
Of course, I don’t want to be entangled in the complicated relationship between men and women. It is better to be simple.
Sex makes me feel safe. Tan Qianqian 30-year-old freelance. Few women are willing to choose to be single. Being single is more harmful to women than good.
However, now that you are single, you have to plan for your life.
I had a marriage and now I am free again.
What is the meaning of marriage for me, let alone say, from the current personal feelings, it is not very practical.
Without a partner, it seems that I am incomplete. The kind of sexual life not only enjoys pleasure, but also has self-confidence and security. It is completely personal. At least it makes me feel that I am a normal person.
Therefore, before I can find a suitable marriage partner, I must find a sexual partner for myself.
In fact, women are the other half of men, especially those who have been married. This feeling is very obvious, it is not entirely physiological, but also psychological.
In the business world, I am a single person, but I need a partner in my life.
Someone introduced me to a friend who was single and offered his own house. We dated like lover, ate together, went shopping, and went to bed, but there was no love between us.
He is a few years younger than me and is still very mature, but he will coax a woman very much and be with him. Although he has no feeling of love, he is very comfortable.
In sexual life, we are a good partner. Under the guidance of my patience, his kung fu in bed is increasing day by day. Of course, this is the reason why he is with me. I need his young and strong physical strength.He needs my skilful experience.
I resumed my normal sex life as before, it brought me a very good attitude and made me feel that life is still very good. I no longer avoid loneliness like avoiding the plague, and even fully enjoy being single to bring meComing benefits.
The woman he likes is the kind of petite, and I am a very independent person. He has no motivation in the career. We never ask each other about work. We are just a pair of emotionally confused “difficult sisters.”Brother, “staying together and comforting each other.
However, I am very clear that our relationship can not be maintained for a long time. This is just a transitional stage. There are too many girls to find him. There are too many phones for this MM and MM all day.
I think that after we “break up”, we may still find a suitable person to marry, but it is not so easy. If you cannot find it, then I still have to find a partner.
”Sexual cultivation” for single women 1. Safety is of paramount importance. Unless you are ready to conceive, you will always bring enough “safety” equipment and will take good care of your body to be a good woman.
2. Recognize your sexual requirements, but not promiscuity. Find a man who knows, loves and loves each other.
3. When choosing a partner, a man with a family should be a minefield not to get involved, not to harm other people’s families, and not to build his own happiness on the pain of others.
4. Regarding each other’s sexual feelings: Do not despise his sexual ability, express care and affection in the best way, share sexual experience, keep sexual secrets between the two, and never expose each other’s scars.
5. Don’t simply use “sex” to get people, no matter what the reason for being single, sexually-sexual relationships with emotional foundations are the most satisfying for women psychologically and physically.
6. Necessary fortification. If you are not your favorite person, do n’t have dinner with him alone. If you do n’t plan to have sex with him, do n’t promise to go to his place to sit.
Gender expert comment: In pursuit of freedom and independence or a partner, singles always sway, compromise or contradict in these two needs.
Some people think that marriage is a basic element of stable society, but its cost is too high.
Love is beautiful, but love is easy to get along with, only sex is your own, it will not betray you, you want it.
In fact, single people are mainly people with high-level requirements, and sex is the lowest level of demand, so they only solve shallow problems.
It should be said that single women have the right to enjoy sexual life, but being single is not equal to casual sex. Although they are not bound by marriage, basic medical ethics should still be followed.
Freedom does not mean casual. To grasp this degree, the key is to establish a good mentality.
Choosing single is not necessarily the ultimate model. Some people are single and love themselves because they believe in love and fate; some people choose to live together because they want to get involved in each other’s lives and establish a good sexual relationship;And some people choose a mode of working among several people, with sex as the protagonist, and the body as a resource, and they develop and enjoy it tirelessly, which becomes an unhealthy lifestyle.
Single women need mature and healthy sexual concepts and issues. As long as this problem is solved, the problem of sex will be solved.
Whether you choose to be single, cohabit, or wait for true love to come, only with a mature understanding of your lifestyle can you have a good mentality.